100% FREE BDSM | Bondage | Fetish Dating

Bondage Pal is a 100% FREE fetish lifestyle and BDSM dating site. We are one of a very select few ALT sites that are ethical, genuine and truly free. Many websites claim to be free but when you join you only have a limited number of functions. We have everything you need to search, swap messages and arrange real-life dates. We cover our costs via adverts within the site so we don't have to charge you anything to be a member. If you want to remove the adverts and get some extra features and attention then we offer a VIP account, but this is optional and no upgrade payments are required to arrange a date if you so wish.

Alternative Dating: Everyone is welcome

If you’re new to the fetish & BDSM scene or very experienced we provide a friendly and safe environment. We work hard to remove abusive members and although our site is a way for you to explore you deepest sexual fantasies, it’s presented in a clean environment. How many free bondage sites have you visited that use white as their primary design colour? We cater for many types of alternative dating niches, ranging from Tattoos, Goth and Emo. As well as a considerable range of fetishes, including, foot fetish, bondage, latex, leather, rubber, water sports, costumes, sex with food and more!

Real Bondage Contacts: No bot generated fakes

Did you know that some paid websites add their own fake member profiles to encourage you to upgrade your account? As we are free we have no incentive for this type of unethical behaviour. All our member’s profiles are made by individuals and you can see a selection of active members.

Live Chatroom

Join our live chat room and chat to other members all over the world. When you find someone you like then move to private 1 on 1 messages for something more personal and intimate.

Moderation and quality

We do not tolerate abusive behaviour from any of our members. Our unique reporting systems allows the entire community to set the standards. If someone is abusive all you need to do is hit the report button their rating is reduced. Our moderation team will then review their profile. We will delete accounts that do not contribute to a positive experience.

Come and join us now!